Monthly Archives: February 2012

An Uneventful Wednesday

Yesterday was blissfully uneventful which was perfect for my sanity after the chaotic events of Monday and Tuesday.

Monday morning, I woke up to find my living room carpet soaked through along the wall that connects to my neighbor’s apartment. I called my landlady at 9am to let her know there was a water leak somewhere, most likely from the neighbor’s water heater (since that’s really the only way water could come under the wall). She arrived at NOON to investigate the damage.

Now, I know she has a life of her own and may not have been able to get here until then. I also knew Monday was a holiday. But when a tenant calls and says you have a water leak in your apartment building, wouldn’t your next call be to every plumber in a 10 mile radius to find someone to find and fix the problem immediately?

So, first she looked under my sink and behind my refrigerator to see if the leak was coming from my apartment. Since my LIVING ROOM was wet and not my KITCHEN, I was pretty sure my apartment wasn’t the problem. She then went next door. She came back to say there was no leak over there. I said “It’s got to be over there for it to be leaking under my carpet. The only pipes in that wall are their water heater pipes.” She went back over and looked in their closet with the water heater, and what do you know, there was the leak. What she didn’t see was that the bottom of the water heater had rusted out. She thought it was leaking from the fittings.

A plumber was supposed to come Monday to check it out. No plumber on Monday.

No plumber on Tuesday.

I have my daughter on Tuesday nights. She thought it hilarious that the floor was wet. She wanted to squish in it and get her feet wet. Mean Mom came out and wouldn’t let her play.

I took Morgan back to her father and headed back home, planning  to stop at my mom’s house on my way home to pick up the carpet cleaner that we share. I called my mom to make sure she had it and didn’t need it. She had it, wasn’t using it and then also freaked me out about the possibility of mold growing up the walls and under the pad from all the water. Thanks , Mom.

As soon as I hung up the phone, my front tire went flat.

It’s 9:15 at night. I’m 25 miles from home. And now I can’t get the carpet cleaner to clean up the water. I kinda freaked out.

I have Verizon and I pay for Roadside Assistance, so I called them only to be told I only get 10 miles of towing for free and I’ll have to pay to get the car the other 15 miles home. The guy on the line asks me “Are you sure you wanna do that?” I just about smacked him through the phone. I’ve always been told it’s not safe to drive more than about 5 miles on the spare tire and was pretty sure it would be safer to be towed. He asked me didn’t I just want it towed to the closest garage? To which I replied, “I’m 25 miles from home. That doesn’t help me, does it?” I tried not to let Crazy Bitch come out but this guy was just not getting it.

The tow truck showed up at 10:30. We dropped the car off at the garage closest to my apartment since it’s less than a mile away and I can walk back and forth. The tow truck driver was nice enough to drive me home so I didn’t have to walk home in the dark even though it’s an extremely safe neighborhood and I wasn’t scared at all.

I had called my mom to let her know I wouldn’t be by to pick up the carpet cleaner so she said she would bring it up to me when she got off work. The worst part of that is she works nights. So she woke me up at 4:30 in the morning after she got off and drove up to my apartment. I knew it was necessary because I really needed to get the carpet dry but it was still a pain in the ass to get up.

Wednesday morning, I walked down to the garage to drop off the car key so they could fix my tire.

Back to the wet floor in my apartment. Still no plumber until 11:00am Wednesday morning.

The water heater had not been turned off all this time. They had continued to use the water heater and my floor got more and more soaked. When the plumber showed up I asked if the leak was stopped. He said yes he had turned off the water and was replacing the whole water heater. I said “Great, thanks,  because it would be useless to start cleaning up all this water if it’s still leaking under the wall.”

I spent about 4 hours Wednesday sucking water up from the carpet. It is still damp in a few places and smells like damp and mildew already. I’ve sprayed Lysol and Febreeze, and sprinkled baking powder all over it. I have a feeling I’m going to need something more powerful.

I’m just glad yesterday and today have been uneventful. I don’t think I could have handled anything else.

New, new, new

New Thing 1

I had a second interview today with Aflac. I feel really good about this one. I’m 99% sure I will get a call saying I’m part of the team and to get signed up for my license class. I’m excited to start a new job that could be the perfect solution.

I would be an independent contractor, basically, so it would be my business and I would represent Aflac but they never leave you without backup and support. There are weekly classes at the main office and LOTS of additional training so you stay up to date on everything going on. This would let me set my own schedule the way I need and would also set up residual income for years to come. I wouldn’t have to worry about me or my daughter ever being too poor again.

New Thing 2

I have been thinking that my early resolutions were a little too vague and I’ve been reworking them, but I’ll leave that for another blog post.

New Thing 3

I got Morgan some fish for Christmas. I don’t know what that girl loves about fish since we have 2 cats, but I got her fist. I came home from the interview today to find about 40 (!!!!) new baby fish swimming around in the tank! How crazy is that?!?!? Morgan won’t see the new babies until tomorrow but I know she will be so excited because she had asked me if any of the fish would have babies. Of course, I told her I had no clue if we would have babies or not, because I had no way to tell if we even had a boy and girl fish. Well, I guess that question got answered!

What a lovely, random blog post. Lots of love, readers! Hope everyone had a great Valentine’s Day. I had a great one.

“Hurry up, Mommy. You’re gonna miss it!”

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I’m sure every mom has gone through this but I think we single moms really feel like time is flying by when we have to share our children with an ex. Morgan said this to me the other day and she has no clue yet exactly what I felt when she said it but I couldn’t stop crying. In typical Aries fashion, this is the middle of the story. Let me start from the beginning….

We were watching Toy Story 3. I hadn’t gotten to see it when it came out in theaters but I think Morgan did. She saw it at some point because she knew what was going to happen in the movie. She kept saying stuff like, “Watch it, mommy, this part is funny” and “Here it comes, you’re gonna love this part.” Mind you, she’s 8.

Now I had already teared up at the beginning of the movie when Andy was packing up for college because even though she’s only 8, I know that in another 8 years, Morgan will be packing up for college and it was bittersweet to say the least.

At one point close to the end of the movie, I got up to get something in the kitchen. I think she wanted more water or something. I don’t know why I didn’t just pause the movie til I got back but I just let it play. I still don’t know what I missed as I haven’t had time to put the DVD back in and watch it all the way through. But from the living room came the line that brought me to tears in the kitchen. “Hurry up, Mommy. You’re gonna miss it!” I knew she was talking about some part in the movie that she wanted me to see. I knew that. But in my heart all I knew was that I feel like I’m missing half of her life and I have no way to hurry up to catch what I miss.

I do as much as I can to make memories for the two of us. We go to the art museum. We play at the park. We go roller skating. I’m trying to teach her how to sew and knit and quilt but she doesn’t have the patience for that yet. We color and play computer games. We read and go to the library. We make all kinds of paintings and art projects. But I still feel like it’s not enough. I know she has fun but it’s no substitute for the fact that I want her here all the time. She wants to be here all the time. And unless her father screws up and I have to take him back to court again, we don’t have a chance in hell of getting the parenting times changed until Morgan is in her teens.

So for at least the next 5 years, I get to keep missing half my daughter’s life. Not fun.

Someone should have warned me about Toy Story 3.

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